Girl Sending First Message? Free Dating, Singles and Personals

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So, you might as well keep your first message fairly short. Is she a bit sarcastic? Think in emotions, not facts.

So, you might as well keep your first message fairly short. Ask her a thought-provoking question. So, did it really take a lot to break the stereotype? However, there is of course the psychological debate of men being the hunter who need to chase after us women, their prey.

Girl Sending First Message? Free Dating, Singles and Personals

Page 1 of 1 Hey guys, how do you generally feel about a girl sending you the first message? I can tell you at least in my case, when women send me messages I don't think of them as desperate in the slightest bit. I think of them as being more proactive and it's nice knowing from the start that they are into you enough to take the plunge. In general, the women who have messaged me that I've ended up dating have had their shit way more together in life. They've also have struck me as being smarter and more aggressive, both of which are sexy attributes in my opinion. Mention something about them that you like at the very least. In other words, had they not sent a message, I wouldn't have even know they were there. If she's interested, regardless who initiates contact, I'll keep talking and getting to know her. Some guys genuinely think that any woman who responds to them the first time they approach her, is obviously defective. My point is, that there is no real truth in the old claim that guys have to initiate or they are wimps, nor that women can't initiate or they are desperate. There IS such a thing as BEING desperate, and therefore as coming off as such in your messages. So if you feel desperate or anxious while writing a message, you might want to write it out, then hang onto it for a day or so, and send it after you come back and read it so yourself fresh, before launching it into the ethernet. One even said that guys most probably won't be interested because they like to do the whole chasing thing : It can't make you look anymore desperate than already being on a dating site. I think a lot of guys would be happy, and relieved to get a message from a woman they are interested in. I takes all the pressure off, because you know she is already interested. You can message first, and still make a man chase a bit. Bottom line if you are interested in someone, and they haven't messaged you then you should send them one. Or do you prefer to keep getting messages from guys you don't have any interest in while the ones you do never take notice of you? Hey guys, how do you generally feel about a girl sending you the first message? When I was 20 all I had to do was walk, anywhwere, mall, grocery store, in a hallway in uni and guys would come out of the woodwork... I could go get the mail or walk dow the street and meet guys........ I'd say of the possible choices, you should keep your profile on hidden and only email guys who you are interested in meeting, or your mailbox will fill up with stupid. If you like a guy and compliment him on something he will appreciate it and have a better day even if he might not be interested in you. All the women that have contacted me first, have been outside of my search criteria, but have been what I would like to have in a partner. If it were not for them messaging first, I never would have seen them. Don't concern yourself with what others think about YOU. Do as you wish, or miss out on a lot in life. If you want an equal, be an equal, and that goes for contacting and pursuing those that you want to know much better. Do not let past practice rule current standards of equality for men and women in the work place, and social settings. If you see someone you want to know better, tell them and show them your confidence, womanhood and equality. See how that works? More seriously, go write whomever you want. If they assume you are 'desperate' that's their distorted perception, they don't know you. So-called dating 'experts' draw attention and reward to themselves making often bad generalizations often from 2nd or 3rd-hand experience reading each other's books and trying to sound confident of their own hookum. They aren't always wrong, but probably no better hit and miss than the above average perceptive observer. Go to parties, study groups, cafeteria, et al. You will never be around so many prospects in your age range, and level of intellect, again in your life. What the heck do they know? If you find someone interesting, show some interest and send a message. Or you could help out the local animal shelter and adopt a dozen or so cats while you wait for a guy to message you, your choice.

I think a lot of guys would be happy, and relieved to get a message from a woman they are interested in. Better to compliment his intelligence and subtle virtues. Feel free to let me know how it goes. That creates an instant personal connection and provides incentive for her to message back. This is a GREAT result for a male profile online, we used a very attractive man for the test. Your blog is a great find. If so, you can be too. Does it mean we should not start with an addressing word at all. Of course, you should. Style In Your Messages Is Really Important. Even make a statement of interest about something you liked dimples example below. Use the guidelines to improve your chances for next time.